Sunday, May 12, 2013

On Being a Mother


I am a mother today and forever because of that little man. Sometimes I still can't believe I brought him into this world. That in my body formed that perfect little face. My eyes. His dad's chin and nose. That in my body grew those scrumptious little toes and fingers. That in my body grew a little person who is already growing up to be his own little person.

Now I understand all the cliches. They grow so fast. He's the apple of my eye. I love him more today than yesterday. But all that still so inadequately describes how I feel about my son. (And it still feels funny to type "my son.") The love I have for him is so profound that I truly have no words to describe it. Yet another cliche, I know.

I know this day, my first Mother's Day, is supposed to be all about me taking a long bath and a nap and getting cards and flowers, and believe me, I did enjoy my day, but mostly I am thankful for Hunter. I celebrate Hunter for all he has taught me and for all he has yet to teach me. For as long as I can remember, I have wanted to be a mother, so I thank him for making me one. There is just no celebrating me without celebrating him.

Hunter, boy, there is no me without you. It is a privilege to be your momma.

Celebrating my beautiful momma, on Saturday!



Celebrating me, on Sunday!





Tuesday, April 30, 2013

My Cloth Diapering Journey: Part 2

Loveybums Wool Jersey Cover

Out of all our cloth diapering options, we chose what I think is the least expensive route: prefolds with waterproof/water resistant covers. Prefolds, whether you buy them individually or in a pack, only cost about $2-$4 each. Depending on how often you do laundry, you could get away with buying as little as 24 diapers in each size (more about sizes in a future post), which works out to 12 diapers a day, or a clean diaper every two hours.

Warning to Potential Cloth-Diaper Users: I do realize that the following ramble makes it seem very complicated to use cloth diapers. It doesn't have to be as complicated as I've made it out to be. It can be as simple as buying 24 one-size all-in-one diapers that your baby can wear from birth to potty learning. I, however, made it a bit more complicated by going the least expensive route (prefolds) and experimenting with different covers.


The First Two Months

Our main daytime system was a cotton prefold, fastened with a Snappi, with a Loveybums wool cover over it. We only had two wool covers in the newborn/small size, so when those got pooped on and needed to be washed (or re-lanolized), we used Bum Genius pocket diapers as covers, just without the inserts. 


Another system we tried were the gDiapers (a friend wasn't using hers, so she let us borrow her stash). These looked super cute on our boy, but he leaked right through them. I liked them for use at night (when we were changing his diaper every 2-3 hours for night feedings anyway) because I wanted something that was close to the convenience of disposables. In my half-asleep state, I definitely didn't want to mess with folding a diaper and using a Snappi diaper fastener. I would assemble the diapers before bed, and we were good to go. The only major draw back was that the gPants are not waterproof, so having a small stash did not work. We would have had to buy more little pants for it to work for us. Enter the Thirsties Duo Wrap cover, a cover made with PUL or polyurethane laminated fabric. (Made in USA!)



Two Months to Around Four Months

While browsing Green Mountain Diapers, I happened upon the Thirsties Duo Wrap diaper covers and decided to try them out. I was looking for something similar to gDiapers that would hold in any leaks. With these covers, I could fold the diaper in thirds, lay the diaper inside the cover without a fastener, and I had a quick way to change Hunter's diaper in the middle of the night. If all he did was pee, I could reuse the PUL cover many times before needing to launder it. Another feature that makes these covers so great is the leg gussets. Even though Hunter would get poop on the inside, the gussets did a great job of keeping pee and poop off his clothes. This system quickly became my go-to for when we were out and about or leaving Hunter with my mom. It makes changing a cloth diaper as easy as using a disposable. You just have the diapers pre-assembled in the cover and go! 

We were also still using the wool cover system, but Hunter grew out of the first two we had, so we moved up to the next Loveybums size (medium from 9 lbs. to 22 lbs.). Since wool covers are expensive, I decided not to buy a second wool cover and instead used the Thirsties covers more often. By the way, I only have four Thirsties covers, and Hunter is really good at getting poop all over the inside, so I went to a used diaper swap and bought two more PUL covers similar to the Thirsties brand (one Bummis and one Happy Heinys, both good products). 


It was around this time that I tried out two All-in-One systems and one pocket diaper system. The Bum Genius Elementals and the Grovia diaper are both made with organic cotton, but I found that they could not contain Hunter's pees and poops as well as the Thirsties covers. Also, the Thirsties Duo Diaper did not work for us because the inserts that it came with were not absorbent enough for us.


Four Months to Present

These days we still use the Thirsties Duo Wrap covers the most, although this week Hunter has pooped through them. I don't know if this is a sign that he needs a different size or we need a new system. The two times it happened, he was on his tummy kicking his legs as if he were crawling, so maybe his leg movements made the velcro closures loose, not sure...

Since Hunter is sleeping longer stretches of sleep at night, I use the wool cover for the first stretch instead of the Thirsties covers. He only needs one diaper change now, so before bed I prepare a Bum Genius with one insert and then lay a preemie size prefold on top for extra absorbency. I think I have finally found a system that I am comfortable with: prefolds all the way with PUL covers during the day and wool covers at night.

If I had to do it all over again, I would use Thirsties (at least 6 in each of the two sizes) from birth and wait until Hunter was sleeping longer stretches at night to use the wool covers. (Those newborn poop stains were a PAIN to get out of wool!) My wool cover of choice is the Loveybums Wool Crepe Cover, but the pull-up style looks so cute on a little baby butt! 

I may actually include three more parts to this series on cloth diapers. I think part 4 will be all about my experience with sized prefolds, part 5 will be other cloth diapering accessories and products, and part 6 will be a cost comparison of what we paid for cloth versus what we would have paid for disposables, so stay tuned for those posts.

And by the way, I realize that I completely forgot about Earth day this year, but it being the last day of April, it's still Earth Month 2013, so I find it very appropriate that I published my next cloth diaper installment today! 

Here are my Earth Day posts from 2011 (because in 2012 I also dropped the ball)...


Sunday, April 28, 2013

Cherry Pit Pillow


Our friends Franzi and Ralf, whom we met while living in Switzerland, recently sent us the loveliest baby gift for Hunter all the way from Germany :)

It's called a Kirschkernkissen, or Cherry Pit Pillow. Have you seen or heard of these? I had not and had to look up what to do with it. You stick it in an oven or microwave to heat up the cherry pits, which will actually retain heat for about a half hour. The cherry pits release a soothing, moist warmth as well as a sweet smell. For aromatherapy, add a couple of drops of lavender essential oil to the cover of the pillow. You can use it to keep baby's bed toasty or place it directly on a gassy/colicky belly. 

We immediately put it to good use to ease Hunter's midnight gassy fits. I've even used it to sooth my achy neck and back. You can also place it in the freezer and use it as a cold pack. Basically it's an eco-friendly, all-natural cold/hot pack remedy for the whole family!

To learn a bit about its history as an ancient European household remedy, click here.


If the cover gets dirty, just remove it and throw it in the wash!

Friday, April 26, 2013

Hunter's Favorite Books

OK, so this post is more about the books we adults like reading with him, as he hasn't clearly shown his preferences for any one particular author or collection. At least not yet ;)


We only have one book from this collection, but we hope to get more. Mama and Baby is the title, and it is great for so many reasons. First, since it has no words, we can make up the story as we please. Because Hunter's attention span these days is quite short, we make the "story" very simple and quick, but later we can elaborate and spend more time on each page. Next, I can "read" it to Hunter in Spanish while Isaiah "reads" it in English. It's multilingual! Finally, these books are made for babies to chew on and attempt to destroy. If it gets dirty, you can throw it in with the laundry! Although it's printed in China, it does meet US toy safety guidelines.



We also only have one book from this board book collection: El Mar. The illustrations are beautiful and the text is simple, perfect for a small baby with a short attention span. Every title has a silly little twist at the end that makes you want to read another title in the collection. Excellent strategy because I definitely want the other three books in the collection!


We received two board books by this author as shower gifts, The Going to Bed Book and Snuggle Puppy, but we have yet to read them with Hunter since they are quite text heavy. They are very cute stories, nonetheless, and we look forward to the time his attention span is long enough to listen to them. I am also going to check out other titles by this author that have just a few words on each page. A huge plus is that many texts by this author are printed here in USA, which is difficult to find these days in the children's book section.

P.S. You can also get a personalized Sandra Boynton book with your child's name in it!